How To Be Considerate of Other People’s Opinions and Views

A quick reminder that not everyone will have the same opinion as you do. No matter the topic discussed, there will always be a different perspective to yours. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and if you wholeheartedly disagree with someone, remind yourself that they believe their thoughts and feelings are valid (maybe due to personal experiences or circumstances). To respect other people’s opinions and views, one must learn to be considerate of them. Here are some tips to do so:

1. Research

There’s no point of getting yourself into a heavy discussion if you don’t know what you’re talking about. It’s always best to research topics you wish to discuss in depth - this is also beneficial towards you, expanding your knowledge with different subjects.

1. Don’t diminish other people’s opinions

Even if you may disagree with someone, try not to undermine them just because they see things differently.

2. Be mindful of who you’re talking to and where you are

You may realise that someone’s opinion may be the polar opposite of yours. Take into account who they are (eg: if they grew up being taught certain things). Depending on where you are, a certain opinion may be the normative thought around the area.

3. Choose your words carefully

Always think before you speak. Adding onto the fourth tip, you don’t want to say anything you’ll regret later. You don’t want to sound like you’re targeting an entire group of people when trying to make a point.

4. Try to stay neutral when talking to others

Body language, facial expressions, and tone can implicate how one perceives a person. If someone you’re conversing with believes the topic of interest is important, show that you’re actually listening and trying to understand. Maintain eye contact. Don’t start raising your voice/try not to sound irritated - escalating and causing a situation won’t benefit anyone.

5. Stay calm

If you believe that a topic is getting out of hand, both parties are uncomfortable, or anything in between really, remember to stay calm. Try politely excusing yourself or even asking to change the subject. Not every conversation can end with everyone agreeing with one side. If possible, maybe find a middle-ground and end it at that.

By Diva Bhatia 11A and Sophia Allam 12A